Christina Joy’s Shower

by John on January 4, 2010

Thank you EVERYONE for all your love prayers & support. We’re VERY excited about Christina Joy’s arrival….it’s hard to believe she’ll be here in about a month!

If you decide you would like to get a gift for the shower….we are registered at the following places:

Amazon.com – Click HERE

Walmart.com – Click HERE - Registry ID: 80503539159

Babies R’ Us – Click HERE - Registry# 44552950

Thank you again for your love, support, and prayers.  We hope to see you and your family at 2PM EST on Saturday, January 16, 2010 for our baby shower.  It will be located in the Main Lobby of New Hope Church in Kodak TN.  The address is listed below.  See you there!

New Hope Church
2450 Winfield Dunn Parkway
Kodak, TN 37764

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A Century of Thanksgiving

by John on December 16, 2009

I know we are almost to Christmas & Thanksgiving seesm like a distant memory, but I really wanted to share what is a special memory for our family….

Every year Candace and I travel to Lakeland, Florida, to celebrate Thanksgiving with about 40 to 50 members from her side of our family. Specifically, it is my mother-in-law’s side of the family. We made the decision to go there before we were married in an effort to see Candace’s great-gradmother, otherwise know as Mimaw, as many times as we could before she passes away. At the time, the majority of the family was certain she had maybe two years left to live….BOY were they wrong!

It is now six years (and six Thanksgivings) later….and Mimaw is still with us! I know I have only been around for six years, but I walked away from this Thanksgiving feeling like it was one of the most special the family has ever experienced together. I thought it would be pretty hard to top the first year I was part of their Thanksgiving….the ones I experienced growing up were very different. However, this year had a special feel to it.

You could feel something was different this year right as it started out. We were all beginning to gather together in the living room for the traditional singing of hymns mixed with worhsip songs, a devotional, and prayer as a family. (On a side note, this can be a torturous 20-30 minutes because the food is visible in the kithen THE WHOLE TIME!) Before the signing started Johnny (not me) was filming the family with his video camera. He zoomed in on Mimaw and said hello…then told her all of us getting together was “her fault.” That struck me! He’s right….we are all there because of her! This Thanksgiving is her 101st, she has been alive over 100 years; and has been the foundation for the sense of love and kinship the family shows today. While her ability to help cook and prepare has diminished, it is more evident than ever her influence on the family and the love we share has only increased as the years have passed.

The family’s unconditional love for each other is an inspiration for the coming generations. All of us see it, respect it, and deeply cherish it. No matter what the fmaily or its members are going through….we all find the time to come together. In my opnion, it’s the perfect model to follow as our family grows….

Enjoy the Holidays, no matter what is happening this year….you never know how much longer you have with those you love most.

Even though she will never read it, I still want to say it…..Thank you, Mimaw, for being the cornerstone of love for the family.

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‘Tis the Season – Your Guide to Mastering Black Friday

November 24, 2009

A small list of Black Friday Ads I was able to get BEFORE Thanksgiving papers were released.

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And Her Name Is…..

November 4, 2009

Many of you have already heard, but I figured I would try to keep the blog updated…. After careful prayer and consideration, Candace and I chose the name: Christina Joy Bendever We chose this name based on its meaning.  According to ParentsConnect.com, “Christina” means “Follower of Christ” and ThinkBabyNames.com states the name “Christina” means “Annointed.”  [...]

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Ultrasound #4 – SHE’S A GIRL!!!

October 20, 2009

Well, Ultrasound #4 actually happened about six weeks ago….but I really havent had the chance to get this worked on until now.  So, I apologize for the delay.  I think you will see it is worth the wait! This ultrasound was by far the most breath-taking.  I was absolutely amazed at the detail of what [...]

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Skunked!

September 11, 2009

Before I start on the actual skunk story, let me give you some circumstances that lead up to the skunking.  My wife, Candace, is currently pregnant; and she has a cast on the lower half of her right leg from an ankle injury.  She has been very graceful in enduring the cast for the last [...]

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